Once again, back to the damn pornography.
Bro, how long is this gonna last?
I know it’s frustrating, and I also know why you can’t overcome this.
Believe me, I’ve been exactly where you are.
The year was 2016, and I was 17 years old.
A focused kid, determined to achieve my goals, but at the peak of my testosterone levels.
I loved studying and learning about health, personal development, and neuroscience.
But one thing always threw me off track and drained the energy I needed to pursue what I truly wanted.
I lost the strength to chase what I needed, bro.
It sounds crazy, but you know it’s true.
After you let loose watching that trash, you completely lose focus.
That’s exactly how it was for me.
One day, I stumbled across an article on the internet. It showed an X-ray and a study of the brain, explaining how brains addicted to pornography suffer the same detrimental effects as cocaine.
Man, that hit me like a truck.
I’m well aware of the damage that garbage drug causes, and I’ve always avoided it. But now realizing that pornography was doing the same to my brain left me feeling powerless for a moment.
I thought it might just be exaggeration, so I started researching it further.
Every bit of research was like a punch in the gut...
Man, how can something so dangerous to our minds be treated like it’s normal?
How can people even recommend it, claiming it’s good for your sexual health?
It was terrifying but also liberating.
But now I faced a tough challenge: how to deal with this knowing I crave it all the time, knowing it feels practically impossible to live without it.
It didn’t make sense to me.
But it had to. I needed to find a way out of this, bro, or I’d just become another guy with a ruined mind, objectifying every woman, living a trashy life because of a fleeting, momentary desire.
And man, don’t get me wrong. I’m not some puritan or one of those red-pill guys; far from it. I’ll always tell you—have sex every day, bro, but with your woman! Today, I’m a married man, and thank God and my choices, I overcame this. That’s why I’m qualified to teach you exactly what will pull you out of this mess.
Watching that junk isn’t real—get that straight!
It’s just two actors consuming your soul while you’re alone in your room.
But I know just saying that won’t solve anything… so let’s not waste time and get straight to the solution.
First, let’s establish something. If you’re a young single guy, this video will give you the definitive solution—no nonsense, no putting you in an impossible situation, okay?
Now, if you’re a married man, the hit will be harder… You might want to click off this video now, and that’s fine—the video will still be here when you’re ready to come back. But know that every day you put this off, your marriage is getting worse.
So, if you decide to stay, I’ll see you in a bit, my brother.
Now I’m going to talk to you, young and single, full of love to give…
Let’s start from the beginning, lol.
First of all, we already understand this stuff is dangerous, right?
But how are we going to act?
I need you to create a brand-new account for all your social media…
Yes, create an account from scratch!
Why? Because just unfollowing the girls you follow isn’t enough anymore, bro. The algorithm will catch you at your weakest moment.
We’re talking about real change here, so start strong.
Fresh account. Delete apps that are impossible to beat:
TikTok.
That’s it, bro, delete it. That app is practically impossible to find constructive content on. And since we’re men forged to win, I need you to delete it.
Whew.
Starting strong, but hang in there because today you’ll beat this garbage.
Next step…
Instead of wasting idle time scrolling and putting your brain in a state of seeking this junk, you’ll replace it with something else.
In neuroscience, this is called habit interference. It’s not about substitution because we’re not dumb enough to think that when you’re turned on, you’ll just grab a book and read. I get it—you won’t.
But here’s what you’ll do: when you’re feeling the urge, forget pornography, bro. If you need to do something, do it without it.
Yes, do it, bro.
Because we know it’s impossible to hold back, and that will build up sensitivity. When a trigger comes, it’ll hit hard.
That’s what I did, bro.
I practiced something called Kaula Tantra.
This freed me from pornography and even enhanced my sexual potency.
I’m not into tantra, Buddhism, or anything like that, but I learned this from a friend who’s a tantra teacher. He said it’s helped free many men from pornography.
And I decided to try it.
And yes.
It works!
So here’s what you’re going to do: every time you feel turned on, don’t grab your phone. Instead, picture the woman of your dreams, in the place of your dreams, with the money you desire, and the future you want. Imagine you two deeply in love (you know what I mean—I have to be careful with my words to keep this video on YouTube).
Take a deep breath and visualize every detail of this woman.
Imagine feeling every touch, the entire moment. That will be your "porn."
Now let’s understand why this is different from pornography.
First, it’s you there, bro.
Second, it’s incredibly challenging. It takes time and mental effort, especially if you’re already addicted.
And that effort builds what we call neuroplasticity, strengthening your brain. Trust me, if you keep doing this consistently, you’ll idealize something that pornography can’t fulfill.
And that’s how you’ll beat it.
If you believe in the law of attraction, I don’t, as I’m evangelical, but hey—it worked for me.
I have the woman I envisioned, and we’ve made that scene a reality, lol.
Now, onto the next step…
If you get a girlfriend, it’ll make this easier. So, find a woman of value to help you on this journey.
Those are the only two or three steps if you don’t have a girlfriend yet to help you escape pornography.
Now let me talk to the married men.
Brother, you need to understand a few things.
First, are you turning to pornography because your wife isn’t enough?
Or because she doesn’t do what the women in porn do?
Answer honestly—it’s not judgment or accusation.
But at the very least, you need to understand what brought you here.
But regardless of your answer, you’ll follow the same first step I mentioned earlier:
Block and delete everything, create a new account on social media, and reset the algorithm.
Now comes the time to generate desire, bro.
Where are you failing?
When was the last time you took care of your wife and were the husband she expected you to be?
For most women, sex doesn’t start in the bedroom.
For women, sex often starts emotionally—it’s about being wooed. And believe me, you can win her over every single day, multiple times a day.
But you need to be the man she expects you to be.
Not just in bed, but also before you get there.
When was the last time she felt protected by you? That you’re a provider, that she can sleep peacefully knowing no harm will come her way, and that she doesn’t need to stress about the household finances?
When was the last time she felt confident that you wouldn’t cheat on her?
When was the last time you let her rest her head on your chest, feeling safe because you were there for her?
Man, do you see how far this is from sex?
If you said yes, you’re slacking.
This is part of sex, brother.
You’re fulfilling the role God gave you as a man.
Now, if you can’t fulfill your role as a man, how can you expect your wife to be the woman you need?
Once this is aligned, align the man you are in the bedroom.
Serve your wife like a true man. Make her feel like she doesn’t need any other man, that you’re more than enough for her.
Show her that all her desires will be satisfied by you.
That’s what will help you live a life free from pornography, bro.
Now, if you’re watching porn, chances are you’re also bad in bed because the kind of sex you see in porn only benefits the actors getting paid for it—it’s not real sex.
So, seek knowledge, improve yourself, and talk dirty with your wife.
You’re married—take advantage of it.
And if you’re one of those guys who says married life means no sex, believe me, you’re being incredibly foolish and missing out on years of real pleasure, brother. Genuine pleasure.
But to help you out, I’m working on writing an email about this soon. So, if you want to understand what your wife needs for you to be the man she desires in bed, subscribe to the newsletter below, and you’ll get an email soon to help you out.
Oh, and one last point, extremely important for both married and single men…
Get closer to God.
I’m not saying to read the Bible every time you’re tempted to mess up.
If you can, do it—it’ll be great.
But seek God in your free moments. Pray, and bring this part of your life to Him.
Read the Bible and seek to understand its truths.
“You will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” That’s in the Bible, John 8:32.
The Bible gives us the path to understanding the truth and overcoming sin. It might sound like preacher talk, but believe me, there is a God, and He’s willing to help you conquer your sins, brother.
Just put in the effort.
Surrender your weaknesses into His hands.
Do your part.
And seek the truth every day. Pray three times a day: in the morning when you wake up, at lunchtime, and before bed. Read the Word in the morning, and beyond that, count on me for whatever you need. If you need help, my email is in the description of this video.
I’m here to help—just send an email.
It’s a pleasure to have you here, and a big hug, brother.